Advice Part III - Sukrisno Nino
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1 Agustus 2019

Advice Part III





Advice Part III


Rewrite these exercises and work on it. Do not forget to translate it into Indonesia!


Study the vocabulary
Translate this word below into Indonesian and make a simple sentence!
  1. terrible
  2. try
  3. heard
  4. exercise
  5. wallet
  6. hospital
  7. owner
  8. know
  9. get
  10. identity
  11. show
  12. address
  13. call
  14. want
  15. presentation
  16. ask
  17. panic
  18. prepare
  19. afraid
  20. believe
  21. important
  22. worry




Study the dialogue:

1st Dialogue
Students: I'm terrible at English and I think I should do something about it. What do you advise me to do?
Teacher: I think you should try this website. It's a fantastic website for beginners.
Student: I've heard about it, but what do you think I should start with?
Teacher: You'd better start with the lessons.Then, try the exercises.
2nd Dialogue
Brian: Hi, Robert! You know, I got a wallet on the way to the hospital yesterday. Should I give it back to the owner of the wallet?
Robert: Well, I think you should do it. Do you know who the owner is? 
Brian: Yes, I also got the identity card of the owner in it. It shows me the address.
Robert: That’s okay. You can call the owner first if you want.
Brian: Alright. Thank you for your advice, Robert.
3rd Dialogue
Lizzie : OhMike. I don’t know what should I do for today’s presentation. Could I ask you for some advice, please? 
Mike : Don’t be panic Lizze! The presentation is still five hours later. You still have time to prepare yourself.
Lizzie : Ok Mike, but you know that it is very important for me. I’m afraid that I’ll do a mistake 
Mike : Just positive thinking, Lizzie. Believe yourself. If you can do it, I’m sure nothing to worry about your presentation.
Lizzie : Oh thanks Mike. You make me feel better 
Mike : You’r welcome Lizze, happy to help you

Complete this sentence by giving advice to the problems!
1) Andi feel sad and lonely. You_________
2) Anwar has no money. You_______
3) Riorit eats too much junk _________
4) We_______________homework because it is important.
5) Joko has missed the bus. He__________

Write a list of five things you would ask advice for.
Example: broken heart, no money
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Write mini-dialogues, asking for and giving advice on you five topics.
Example:
Ray: What do you think I should do about my low GPA?
Tonop: I think you should try harder in every class.
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Rewrite this advices into your book and translate it into Indonesia. 
 5 Proven Methods For Gaining Self Discipline

There are many important qualities that can contribute to a person’s achievements and happiness, but there is only one that begets sustainable, long-term success in all aspects of life: self discipline. Whether in terms of your diet, fitness, work ethic or relationships,  self discipline is the number one trait needed to accomplish goals, lead a healthy lifestyle, and ultimately, be happy.
According to a 2013 study by Wilhelm Hoffman, people with high self control are happier than those without. The study discovered this is true because the self disciplined subjects were more capable of dealing with goal conflicts. These people spent less time debating whether to indulge in behaviors detrimental to their health, and were able to make positive decisions more easily. The self disciplined did not allow their choices to be dictated by impulses or feelings. Instead, they made informed, rational decisions on a daily basis without feeling overly stressed or upset.
Despite what many may think, self discipline is a learned behavior. It requires practice and repetition in your day-to-day life. To improve your own self discipline, test out these 5 proven methods for gaining better control. This regimen will help you to establish good habits, break bad ones, and improve your control by making simple changes to your everyday routine. Improved self discipline will allow you to live a freer life by helping you to make healthy choices, not emotional ones. Give it a shot. Your happiness will thank you for it.
1. Remove temptations. 
Self control is often easiest when abiding by the old saying, “out of sight, out of mind.” Removing all temptations and distractions from your environment is a crucial first step when working to improve your self discipline. If you are trying to have better control of your eating, toss the junk food. Ask your office intern to leave you off of the daily lunch order email. If you want to improve your focus while working, turn off your cell phone and remove the clutter from your desk. If you’re really having trouble, download the SelfControl app on your computer to block distraction websites - Facebook, Youtube, even e-mail - for a set period of time. Set yourself up for success by ditching the bad influences.
2. Eat regularly and healthily.
 Studies have shown that low blood sugar often weakens a person’s resolve. When you’re hungry, your ability to concentrate suffers as your brain is not functioning to its highest potential. Hunger makes it difficult to focus on the tasks at hand, not to mention making you grumpy and pessimistic. You are much more likely to have a weakened sense of self control in all areas of our life - diet, exercise, work, relationships... you name it. In order to stay on track, make sure that you are well fueled throughout the day with healthy snacks and meals every few hours. I personally make sure to always have some almonds or Muscle Milk on hand. These snacks ensure that I can get a dose of healthy protein and fats throughout the day when needed. Eating often regulates your blood sugar levels and improves your decision making skills and concentration. Allow you brain to focus on your goals and priorities instead of on your growling stomach.
3. Don’t wait for it to “feel right.” 
Improving your self discipline means changing up your normal routine, which can be uncomfortable and awkward. Charles Duhigg, author of The Power of Habit, explains that habit behaviors are traced to a part of the brain called the basal ganglia - a portion of the brain associated with emotions, patterns, and memories. Decisions, on the other hand, are made in the prefrontal cortex, a completely different area. When a behavior becomes habit, we stop using our decision-making skills and instead function on auto-pilot. Therefore, breaking a bad habit and building a new habit not only requires us to make active decisions, it will feel wrong. Your brain will resist the change in favor of what it has been programmed to do. The solution? Embrace the wrong. Acknowledge that it will take a while for your new regime to feel right or good or natural. Keep chugging along. It will happen.
 4. Schedule breaks, treats, and rewards for yourself. 
Self discipline does not mean your new regimen needs to be entirely cold turkey, hard core, or drill sergeant-like in execution. In fact, giving yourself zero wiggle room often results in failures, disappointments, and giving into your old ways. While practicing self control, schedule specific breaks, treats, and rewards for yourself. Dieting? Designate Saturday as ice cream sundae day. Trying to lose weight? Treat yourself with a fancy massage after a month of gym trips. Working on controlling your spending? Allow yourself a $25 splurge at the mall on Sunday. (Leave the credit cards at home, and bring cash only). Self discipline can be hard. Reward your effort.
5. Forgive yourself and move forward. 
Instituting a new way of thinking won’t always go according to plan. You will have ups and downs, fabulous successes, and flat out failures. The key is to keep moving forward. When you have a setback, acknowledge what caused it and move on. It is easy to get wrapped up in guilt, anger, or frustration, but these emotions will not help build improve self discipline. Instead, use the hiccups in your plan as learning experiences for the future. Forgive yourself, and get back in the saddle ASAP. The longer you’re off your game, the harder it is to keep going in a positive direction.

6 Tips for Intelligent Thinking
In general, people consider intelligence to be a highly desirable trait. Some people can be seen as more 'smart' due to their everyday habits and conscientious attitude. Here are 6 tips for more intelligent thinking.
1. Learn from your mistakes
Everything we do, from our first breath to the moment in which we die, is a matter of trial and error. A baby cannot learn to walk without falling down first, and we cannot do better at work if we don’t know what to improve. Errors are actually how the brain learns; when we make decisions, neurons are activated, and if these decisions turn out to be wrong, the activated neurons are subsequently suppressed. Smart people reflect on these errors, and work to ensure that they do not happen again - it just takes a smart person to realize when a decision is wrong.
2. Re-evaluate your views
The greatest minds of all time have re-evaluated their initial theories. When we think of intelligent, famous people, scientists usually come to mind - because scientists have to adapt to the constant stream of new discoveries influencing their life's work. Take Einstein, who altered his theory of general relativity, and famously said “we cannot solve our problems with the same thinking we used when we created them”. The same can be said for Stephen Hawking, who initially thought nothing can escape a black hole, but later published work contradicting his original theory. Train your brain to adapt to new situations and information - you will only get smarter with time.
3. Recover from failures
The most intelligent of people make mistakes - renowned filmmakers release box office flops, and manufactures put products on the market which fail. It may feel humiliating and unpleasant when an idea which you think is genius is unsuccessful, but this happens to the best of us.
Without failure, the successes would not be so exhilarating. Famous and successful people who experienced obstacles include Arianna Huffington, co-founder of the Huffington Post, whose second book was rejected by 36 publishers, as well as J.K. Rowling, whose Harry Potter books were rejected 12 times before she became one of the most successful authors of all time. If Huffington and Rowling didn’t push so hard, they never would have achieved the success they have today.
4. Make your own luck
Nobody achieved anything monumental just waiting for it to happen. Making smart decisions takes effort - you need to read, do your research, and work to achieve your goals. When you pour your heart and soul into a project, you know that it is your hard work which gets you to the finish line, and not simply because the stars aligned. What’s more, working hard and making your own success is the key secret to hapiness, as a series of studies by Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi found. Nelson Mandela once said that “the greatest glory in living life is not in never falling, but in rising everytime we fall”.
5. Push for what you believe in
A smart person knows when to push for what they believe in and stick to it, even if the situation takes a turn for the worst. Intelligent people are like rubber bands - anything can happen and they can adapt to the change. There is a huge difference between not doing something because you might fail, and doing something despite the risk. If you know that your idea has potential, push for what you believe in. “Life is like riding a bicycle, in order to keep your balance, you must keep moving” said Albert Einstein. Fight for your chance to shine, even if a critic only has a “gut feeling”, because if someone else believes in your vision, you might just achieve your goals.
6. Know that actions speak louder than words
We all know someone who likes to say how great they are. But intelligent people know that their actions speak louder than words. A study found self evaluations to be not nearly as accurate as evaluations made by other people, who had watched the participants conduct conversations. If you want to be taken seriously and respected by coworkers and friends, let your hard work prove your worth.





Source: 
https://www.myenglishpages.com/site_php_files/communication-lesson-advice.php
https://englishclas.com/dialog-bahasa-inggris-2-orang-giving-advise/
Source:

https://www.forbes.com/sites/jennifercohen/2014/06/18/5-proven-methods-for-gaining-self-discipline/#693d25343c9f
https://www.neuronation.com/science/6-tips-intelligent-thinking
Chialvo, D. & Bak, P. (1999) Learning from mistakes. Neuroscience: 90(4), 1137-1148.
Csikszentmihalyi, M (1999) Flow: the psychology of optimal experience. Harper Perennial Modern Classics.
Amabile, T & Kabat, L (1982). When Self-Descriptions Contradict Behavior: Actions Do Speak Louder than Words. Social Cognition: Vol. 1, No. 4, pp. 311-335.

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